Unbloodybelievable

Music Boy did not cope well with being caught out. I have received no less than 3 text messages, all completely abusive. Am still in shock, for fucksake, he was the deceitful one!

Message one started out on the attack. The theme was, that I had been too harsh and that actually he should never have gone out with me at all, given I had moved our first date due to a hangover (ha ha not hangover but Harvardover). Which he was willing to overlook at the time but on reflection did not appreciate. He went on to admit he had blocked me, and said he wasn't sure why but perhaps hadn't been 100% about me and that he should never have asked me to deactivate my profile (dah).

I decided not to not to dignify this rude message with a response.

30 minutes later another text, which began 'Furthermore'. It went on to say that if I am so quick to react and make decisions I will apparently never meet anybody. And that after a failed marriage he wants to be sure next time, so wasn't it understandable that he wasn't ready to take the profile down?

You would think that I was the one chasing some sort of commitment!!!!! Realising I was winding him up by not responding, once again ignored him.

Really thought that would be the end of it. But no, today he goes and sends another bloody text message! Seriously the guy needs to accept defeat. This one.....Thanks for having the decency to reply Yvette. The fact you chose to respond to me via facebook is pretty gutless, goodbye and good luck.

What a complete dufus.

The good news is, I have learned an important lesson as a result of Music Boy. The way I see it, the route of the problem, was that Music Boy thought I was too good for him. And having had a long hard think about it, I've been here before. And so have some of my friends.

If a bloke believes you are probably out of his league he gets so excited he rushes the relationship, trying to get you to sign your life away with him asap. However, simultaneously he worries that at any moment you may realise (as he has) that you are too good for him and leave him. So, as a result of his insecurity, he opts to have a back up plan (ie bird). I am sure this is what happened with Richard (on of my ex's) and I am equally sure this is what happened with MB.

So the moral of the story is, it doesn't matter how willing you are to 'settle', it aint gunna work!

Night 3 in Melbourne was once again lots of fun, however did not involve any tall handsome strangers. Didn't hear from the hot guy from first night but then again I was sharing a hotel room so that would have been far too difficult anyways!

As for Harvard, he still has me on his mind. He started texting me again this afternoon, the messages started out friendly, then proceeded to get naughty. I couldn't resist, paid him a little visit I did. God he is a hot! Shame, shame, he is only after fun. I still seem to be handling this 'fun' thing ok. But I must admit, I suspect I need to be careful here. I have already told him that if my heart starts to get involved I must run for cover. And run for cover I will. Not yet though, ok?!

xxxoooxxx